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so i like my guyfriend and he has a girlfriend
he has a girlfriend an i know its wrong for me to like him because of that but he is always flirting and telling me that he would not mind dating me and also he stares at me while hes with his girl and sometimes she would even give me stares,what should i do im a female and 16 years old?
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ive been there, done that.
dont go down that road.
honestly, it is NOT worth it in the end. even though you're not, you WILL be called a homewrecker and people will make your life a living hell.
unless he breaks up with his girlfriend, tell him that its not fair to you or his girlfriend that he doing this and that he needs to stop.
you could also tell him that unless he breaks up with his girlfriend, you guys cant flirt with eachother or talk like you are now.. just FRIENDS is all you can be.
you dont want to be the other girl, i know you dont. and if you were his girlfriend and he was doing this to you, wouldnt you be upset if you ever found out ? .. im pretty sure youd be furious.
i think that you should talk to him and tell him exactly what i told you to.. if he bails out and decides to stay with his girlfriend than its HIS loss and his girlfriend's loss since he will probably continue doing this with other girls if someone [you] doesnt talk to him about it.
but i mean, i know hes your friend. so you probably dont want to ignore him.. but if you do and he asks you why youre being so guarded, tell him and let him know that this needs to stop and he needs to figure out what he wants because you wont wait for him forever and you sure as hell wont be used.
good luck ! i hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo :]
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