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My friend is crying what do I do ?
My friend is feeling very sad and she feels like crying but she can't. What can I do to comfort her ?
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That is kind of tough. Your friend's emotions are locked inside. You really do not have the key. She has the key and needs some sort of catalyst. A nostalgic memory? Massage? Sweat lodge ceremony? Accupuncture? One that works for me is two strong cups of coffee, don't laugh, it seems to work. A couple of beers or herb. Going out to the wilderness alone seems to work also.
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She just needs someone to be with her. She doesn't need pity. You can buy her stuffed animals and chocolates and all the gifts she wants.... but the thing that will truly make her happy is someone there for her. Maybe its a person who will listen to her. maybe its someone who will take her mind off of things. Whichever it may be, you just need to be there for her.
Communicate with her. You can go talk to a wall but you can't communicate with a wall. Hence, communicate not talk.
Plan out a whole day where its just you 2 and you do everything she wants. Like in the daytime make breakfast, then go shopping, then go see a movie, then have a bonfire and eat brownies or something.
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Talk to her, Listen to her
Communication is the golden key to working things out, Sometimes when someone is emotional all they need is for someone to listen to them.
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