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infidelty issue
i am from india.i luv my boyfriend bt still luv to talk with my ex as a friend..he thinks i still for him.once wen i decided to go back to my ex,he cried and i had to come back to my present boyfriend.nw m on my vacation for two months and far frm him..nw again he doubts dat i luv my ex and is with him..truth is i talk 2 my ex bt doesnt luv him..my boyfriend acts weird nowadays and asks me to go back 2 my ex..saying story will have agud ending..which i dont want to.dont know how to get my boyfriend back.he has lost trust in me..need ur advice
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Honestly, I think that you need to evaluate the pros and cons of the ex, and the pros and cons of the boyfriend.
If I was in your situation, I would have left my boyfriend, if he is that jealous and doesn't trust me because I simply am talking to somebody, then something is very wrong with the relationship.
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Stop talking to the ex. If you love your boyfriend you have to sacrifice your friendship with the other one.
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Just explain to him how much you care for him.If he truly cannot understand your feelings for him than he is not yet ready to have a girlfriend.Mabey you should give him a little time to think.Hope it all works out for ya.
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It all comes down to this: "once wen i decided to go back to my ex..."
You can never take that back. He knows that you can change your mind any time, which means you don't really love him.
You already proved you still want to be with your ex, because you already went to be with him before.
You should leave your present boyfriend. You hurt him too bad, and he doesn't want you back because he can't trust you.
He would be stupid if he ever trusted you again.
Next time you find a boyfriend, if you go to live with your ex, you will lose the next boyfriend too.
You have been very cruel, and nobody likes that.
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