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Eh...This is...a Friend..or...STALKER. kind of a thing. :D
This guy I DON'T like, is TOTALLY being a stalker. NO JOKE! He'll walk with me to and from my classroom, before and after school. He KNOWS I have a Boy friend but he STILL hangs with me and he NEEDS TO BUG OFF! How do I tell him to back off without hurting him!?!?! cause he's pressuring me to pick him or my boyfriend. Can't he take a hint?! I mean. Seriously. I'm staying with my Boyfriend. HOW DO I DO THIS!? Oh and he's a year behind me in school.
I'mma girl...and...I'm 13...
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yeh, i think the best thing to do is to send him a text or email telling him to back off abit. This is because it will look more serious, and he'll know that he's annoyed you.
OR you could try and make yourself less available to him. Say if you always walk around on your own when he follows you, go round in a big group cos then he won't bother as he'll feel overpowered.
If you really love your boyfriend then you should fine telling him to back off really easy. Good Luck :)
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I totally agree with Barbie. You should just explain to the guy that you are in love with your boyfriend. and he won't change your mind about that.
BUT! If it gets to the point that it's almost harrasement and you rfeeling uncomfortable about it. maybe you should talk to your boyfriend. tell him whats bothering you. And see if he wouldn't mind telling the guy to bug off.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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Im 13 2t && lyk i noe how yer feeling. the next time he askes you 2t pick tell him, i love my boiifriend, && nothing will change that, i like you but as a friend, nothing more. just DONT tell yer boiifriend, er any of your boiifriends friends! hope this helps :)
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