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Why am i never good enough..
20female
I feel like my love life is falling apart :( Long stories short..
I have always like this one kid, we've been friends for a long time but he has an ex girlfriend of 3 years who he still hangs out with like every day and basically I feel like he doesn't give a shit about me.
Then there is this other guy who I recently used to talk to for about 4 months but then he said he didn't want to "talk" to me anymore and we haven't talked since he texted me a month ago asking if we can be friends still (i said yes of course). About 95% sure he is talking to a different girl.
I can't stop thinking about all of this. It makes me want to cry. I don't know what to do anymore...
I am doing online college so I basically only have one best friend so I don't get out that much to take my mind off of all of this. I have the worst luck when it comes to guys and relationships...
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Look, You seem like a lovely person. You also seem quite sensitive. I wouldn't get to upset over this boy because he obviously is messing you about. Don't cry over this, because it may hurt but he is NOT worth your tears. If you don't trust him, you can't like him that much. Think about it... If there is somebody that you really do love then you will trust them totally. If he is talking to another girl, then you obviously deserve somebody so much better than him.
If you feel as if you need to get out more, organise a night out with some girls you would like to get closer too and party! You might meet some guys there too ;) good luck xx
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You are good enough :) even though you don't think it. Just because that "guy" isn't around right now doesn't mean you're never going to meet him. If you want to find someone you got to get out there though...try meeting new people or even go on meetup.com and join some groups make some friends. I met my current boyfriend through my best friend and we've been together for awhile now. I went through the same thing as you and its tough. I would talk to guy after after guy and I felt like I wasn't good enough. There's one quote that I love and it goes "Rejection is god's protection". There is a reason why you aren't with these guys. Its not you don't blame you just brush yourself off and keep looking. Its funny there was this one guy I took to prom my junior year and I liked him. I told him I did and he didn't feel the same way. I told him I felt stupid for saying a thing and that I should have stayed quiet about it. He told me that I should say how I feel and to take risks. He also said that when one door closes another one opens. And he was right. Don't put yourself down pick yourself back up and keep going! Good luck and hang in there! :)
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With both of those scenarios, I say give up and let them go. It is unfair to you that you have feelings for these guys and they have none in return to you. You are twenty, go out and have fun. Meet new people. I am pretty sure you will be able to find someone else that will deeply care for you as much as you do to him. You know what I mean?
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