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I feel like my love life is falling apart :( Long stories short..
I have always like this one kid, we've been friends for a long time but he has an ex girlfriend of 3 years who he still hangs out with like every day and basically I feel like he doesn't give a shit about me.
Then there is this other guy who I recently used to talk to for about 4 months but then he said he didn't want to "talk" to me anymore and we haven't talked since he texted me a month ago asking if we can be friends still (i said yes of course). About 95% sure he is talking to a different girl.
I can't stop thinking about all of this. It makes me want to cry. I don't know what to do anymore...
I am doing online college so I basically only have one best friend so I don't get out that much to take my mind off of all of this. I have the worst luck when it comes to guys and relationships... (link)
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With both of those scenarios, I say give up and let them go. It is unfair to you that you have feelings for these guys and they have none in return to you. You are twenty, go out and have fun. Meet new people. I am pretty sure you will be able to find someone else that will deeply care for you as much as you do to him. You know what I mean?
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well i started to talk to this boy and then a couple months later i realized i like him....... ALOT. but i never knew his age now that i do know it bothers me. hes a seventh grader when im a sophmore. what should i do?
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Oh, now I know someone who went through this situation. It doesn't matter how old he is, if you like him a lot, go out with him. It doesn't really matter about the age, as long as you both have feelings for each other. Sure you will graduate before him, but it doesn't make a difference. I say go for it, because it will probably work out.
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Okay, im going to try and make this brief.
Theres this guy who i sit next to in english. It hasnt my my "all-year" seat, just for the past 5 or 6 weeks.
Since i first sat there, me and this guy, we'll call him Frank, me and frank have talked constantly. mostly just sarcastic jokes, or weird conversations. but none the less, it was a conversation. Hes always very nice to me, and compliments me all the time. you can see where i'd think he'd like me.
however, we rarely talk outside of class, though i always catch him looking at me in the hallways and such. and, him and i are complete and total opposites. he looks like he just walked out of an ambercrombie ad, and im always in jeans and band t-shirts.
so i dont know for sure. like, he's flirty and i get the "vibes" that he likes me, DURING class, but outside of class...not so much.
any help would be great, im sorry if this is confusing .. =\
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I am not sure if he likes you or not, maybe he just wants to be nice to you because you sit next to him. I am not trying to put you down or anything like that, he probably just wants to be friend with you. This has happened to me before, and I had asked him, and he said that he was just being nice to me. It happens to a lot of people.
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I have this problem, me and this guy used to date it has been about 3 years since we have broken up and I just cant get over him. I mean I have tried to move on with other guys but all I can think about is him. How do I get him out of my head 24/7? I dont me thinking about him ruin a potential realationship but if I keep thinking about him non-stop, it will ruin the relationship. Does anyone have anyway of getting over a guy? I really dont understand it I have been in other realationships and got over them I just cant get over this one. (link)
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This has happened to me before. You had a certain connection with this guy, I wonder. That happens to a lot of people. Just think about it for a second. Did he break up with you? If he did, then there is no reason to keep thinking of him. Sure it will be pretty hard not to, but he is the one who broke up with you. If you broke up with him, that was a mistake, that is why it keeps in your mind. All I can say is just try to move on, and just know that he probably moved on too.
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