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Need advice cant tell my mum im pregnant!
Well I'm 19 years old i already have a two year old daughter..and I'm now 15 weeks pregnant...my mum asked my mum asked me if I could be pregnant a few months ago (motherly instinct!!) but i just denied it for some reason? I just don't wanted her to be disappointed now that I'm almost four months i cant work up the courage to tell her my mum hence the fact its not going to be long before its quiet obvious! and I have quiet a good relationship with her..i know i should just be honest and stop being silly but i just want some advise anyway.
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You should definitely tell you mother because if you're only 19 and already have a two year old daughter, I'm guessing your mother is a large financial part of the raising of your child. At fifteen weeks its too late for any type of termination of the pregnancy so, its really important that your mother is aware of your pregnancy so she won't unintentionally let you do things that are unhealthy for the baby (ie. drinking, smoking, strenuous activity). Don't treat another human being's life like a joke or some guilty little mistake.
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Be honest, Lying isn't going to help anything
What's done is done, You are right in another few weeks you may be showing and it will no longer be a big secret. Sure, Your mother may be upset or disappointed but you are also of age to make decisions on your own. It's better to be honest and get it over with then to hide it and have her find out you lied.
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