I regret giving hand job, but now I need to give Blow jobs
Question Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 3:59 pm
I am 15, and some of my friends have already lost their virginity. I have given on hand job. (When i was 13 and i regret it) but i have no idea how to sufficently do a bj, help?
kirkwood94 answered Sunday April 17 2011, 1:01 am: I just want to say that i am 16, and i am the only girl i know that is still a virgin. I am not ready and i know that, if your not ready to give "BJ" then dont. who cares what your friends are doing. What if the one time you do this you find out later that you have herpes or another std. [ kirkwood94's advice column | Ask kirkwood94 A Question ]
DangerNerd answered Saturday April 16 2011, 6:34 pm: Hi there,
Do you really want to be back here in two years, asking another question, and have to say that you regret giving a bj? Think about this for a minute.
Your disease risk is WAY higher with what you want to do now. Condoms don't stop herpes or HPV from being transmitted. Yes, you can get diseases from giving a bj.
Your friends have lost their virginity, and that is their problem. It isn't an accomplishment that you need to keep up with.
Look at it this way: When they are 30, and can't have babies because of the diseases they are busy collecting now, will you still feel like you were left out?
Think about WHY you regret that hand job... your conscience is letting you know that you did something that is not ok. Can you imagine how much worse that feeling would be with your new idea?
When you are in a loving, committed relationship, those bad feeling won't be there.
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