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Member Since: April 16, 2011
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Last Update: April 17, 2011
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I am 15, and some of my friends have already lost their virginity. I have given on hand job. (When i was 13 and i regret it) but i have no idea how to sufficently do a bj, help? (link)
I just want to say that i am 16, and i am the only girl i know that is still a virgin. I am not ready and i know that, if your not ready to give "BJ" then dont. who cares what your friends are doing. What if the one time you do this you find out later that you have herpes or another std.


How do i know if my cherry has popped or not? (link)
Actually this may sound wierd but you can pop your "cherry" with a tampon. You would only know if you went to a doctor. They can tell if your hymen or "cherry" has broke.


17/f
About three weeks ago, I had sex for the first time. We used a condom, and there were no signs that it broke or leaked. Here's my concern: my period was due a week and a half ago. Could it have something to do with a hormone change? Im just really nervous that i may be pregnant.

Thanks so much for any help you can give me (link)
It could be a number of things. You could be stressed out about being pregnant, and stress messes with your period. But i would go get a pregnancy test anyway. Condoms dont always work.


Ok so my whole life I had planned on going to one high school and now, 2 months from the end of 8th grade, I find out I'm moving and its gonna be a different high school. I don't know anything about it or anyone that's gonna go there. Should I try to go along with how their students are, or stick to who I am, cuz I'm artsy and this high school is very technical from what I've heard. And how should I act, I've never been the new kid and now I'm gonna be the new kid at a new high school and I'll be a freshman, as if high school wasn't scary enough. (link)
K. So i say you should be yourself to a point. Try to get along with the other students because if you dont you are going to have the four hardest years of your life in high school. I have moved atleast 14 times in my life. And i am a artsy girl to. but you might find someone just like you at that school. that you will get along with really well.


My son's face and lips and head swell up when he goes outside. I'm thinking about building him a bubble, what do you make those out of? Also how do I get him to stop crying about being a "bubble-boy"? (link)
Dont build him a bubble. bring him to the doctor. my little sister has the same problems they got her on some allergy medicine and it actually helps.


I'm dating this guy. He's very sweet, smart, funny, and he notices all the little things about me. I feel like he really cares about me. I can be myself around him and we seem to have a good connection.

However, he's a little too sexual for me. We were laying in the grass for a bit and he put is hand up my shorts. I said no and pushed him away. He kept trying and I kept pushing him and threatened to get up and leave if he did so. So he kept his hand on my leg and calmed down a bit, but later he did it again. I kept saying no. And I got up and we talked about it and he said he'd stop and go as far as I wanted. But really, I want to wait. I know he likes doing dirty things, but I want to wait and see where we go in our relationship. I get the feeling he wants me for sex. I mean, we barely talk about sex, but still. He's very perverted and can't keep his hands off of me. I don't want our relationship to revolve around sex.

And something else: we've only been dating for a week or so, and he's already saying he loves me.

I still really like him but I don't know what else to do if he keeps being all over me like this. I want to stay with him. So how do I firmly tell him I don't want sex right now? (link)
STOP the relationship now, or talk to him and be like you know we have only been dating a week, there is no way possible you love me. I am a pretty atractive girl and i have a bigger chest, so i am always scared that a guy is using me for sex also, So at the beggining of every relationship i say if your in this for sex you might as well walk away


How short do you have to be to be considered a migit? im 15 and 4'10...does that make me a migit? (link)
Alright well to be considered a midget your supposed to be 4'8, and no i am 16 and i was 4'11 for almost 4 years, you will grow a little bit. If you want to grow taller, this is going to sound stupid but try doing yoga it helps by stretching out your back and your legs, the doctor told me when i was 14 that i was done growing, i did some research and in actual reality your legs are probably done growing but your spine should still grow for a couple years




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