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My mom smacks me and once gave me a bloody nose
im 12 years old and im pretty sure my mom hates me. i get in trouble for the stupidist things and she always gets in my face smacks me and once gave me a bloody nose.. my younger sis and older brother get watever they want can do anything and never get in trouble. wenever i talk to her bout it i get yelled at and smacked. if i talk to anyone else shell find out some how. im tired of crying my self to sleep at night and trying to run away and wanting to die sometimes i dont know wut to do
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do get help get a video camra and hide it so it will witense it then take to the police
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hi im 13 yrs old, and trust me i know how it feels to be hated but mom.
you have to tell someone or you'll regret it.
TRUST ME! it WILL get worse. one day it might be a smack, but the next time it might be a KICK OR A HARD PUNCH or something worse.
my friend she was abused by her mom.
and she didnt wanna tell anyone because she was scared that her mom will find out. and then one day her mom totally SNAPPED and PUSHED HER DOWN HARDWOOD STAIRS AND BROKE HER NECK AND SHE CANT EVER WALK AGAIN.
im not tellng you this to get scared, im telling you this so you wont get hurt anymore.
TELL SOMEONE AND YOU WONT REGRET IT!!
PLEASE LISTEN TO ME!
YOU WONT REGRET IT!
i hope you listen to me + take care.
good luck!- darkangel31
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Iam so sorry to hear about what your mom is doing to you. I know you scared and confused but you need to tell someone about what is happening to you mabey you can talk to a teacher or a school guidence counsler,or a friend or another family member you can trust. I know it's going to be hard for you to tell someone but it's for you and for your siblings saftey even if she is not doing what she is doing to you to them it could happen . please tell someone for you and your siblings saftey.
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Hi, I'm old enough to be your grandfather. Hopefully someone being my age will be meaningful to you in the advise given.
I do agree with the advice solidadvice4teens gave you. You need to understand one thing though. If mom is constantly hitting you in the face, read no further and do as solidadvice4teens has told you to do.
It is one thing to discipline a child, it is another thing to abuse a child. A couple of smacks on the butt or a reasonable spanking is discipline. Hitting, punching to the face and other parts of your body is child abuse.
There are protections in place for children who suffer at the hands of a child abuser. This is very serious so think before you make this accusation. You said mom once smacked you in the face. Has she done it again? When she smacks you, where does she smack you? How does she smack you? Does she use only her hand or does she use whatever is at hand like a wooden spoon, belt or hairbrush.
The last 4 questions are very important to answer truthfully. There is a very fine line in the definition between abuse and discipline. If your being abused, you have every right to protect yourself and seek the protections in place to protect you. If mom is disciplining you, even if you feel she is wrong to do so she has a right to do so. It is every parents right and responsibility to discipline their children as they see fit.
The reason I am asking you to be cautious in what action you take, is not because I don't believe you. I do believe that you believe this is what is happening to you. But because once you set in motion the protective services for abused children they can't be stopped. The help ranges from helping mom to be a better mother to some very serious stuff. Things I won't list here as I do not want to pregidous you decision.
I hope I have helped you some.
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TELL! You absolutely must tell an adult you trust be it a teacher, guidance counselor, principal, friend's parents, relatives etc. It doesn't matter who but you have to tell. It will only increase in violence until she gets help. She's got a problem and it's likely a mental health one to be doing this and not seeing how wrong it is.
It's against the law and will not get better until these adults confront her and believe me once they get your story she will never be able to hit you again and your family will get the help they need and that you need. That's what happens when you tell nobody would you back with her if they knew how afraid of telling you are.
Be sure to tell and it's probably best to do it at school because they'll take immediate steps to deal with it and keep you safe. Even if she found out there's no way in heck she could touch you without action taken against her.
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