I talk to older men online and send them pics. i REALLY want to have sex!
Question Posted Wednesday April 13 2011, 5:53 pm
well im a 11 year old girl, 12 next month, i want to know if im a slut? i finger my self, flirt with lots of boys, and i love it when boys touch my butt or touch me up and i watch porn.
am i a slut?
i also talk to older men online and send them pics. and i REALLY want to have sex!
First: I'm sure you parents have told you not to speak to strangers. Talking to strangers online can be just as dangerous as talking to strangers on the street. There are a lot of sex offenders who lurk on online sites looking for children just like you. It matters no how well you think you are hiding your real age, they can spot you instantly. Never, ever send anyone other than family members pictures of yourself. Once you send someone a picture you can be in danger as you loose control of that picture and it can go viral on the Internet.
These men are not out to be your friends or have online relationships with you. They are out to harm you. Do you read the newspapers or watch the evening new. Where I live there is a girl who the police have been looking for since before last Christmas. They believe she is the victim of a sexual child molester. They have been searching for her body.
Second: As to your question: I don't like putting labels on people, never have and hopefully never will. What I believe is happening to you is you have entered puberty at a very early age, it happens. Because of this you're not handling the hormonal changes that are occurring within you.
Now understand I am writing to you as if you were older, not as a child. Going through puberty early happens, it is not something you can control. Going through puberty does not mean that you have to be getting your period, that can and will come later.
While getting your period is the biggest sign of a women going through puberty. Puberty can start with the hormonal changes and the changes in your body. The loss of your baby fat, the curving of your Dody, your breasts starting to bud, body hair thickening and the growing ow pubic and arm pit hair.
If I were to put any label on your situation it would be that your are not handling puberty well and as such are a little over sexed. This is understandable given your age. You need to speak with your mother and tell her what is going on with you. You need to also tell her what has been going on with your online relations. This is for your own safety.
Your safety is most important to me. You have placed yourself in serious danger by sending your photograph out to men you don't know.PLEASE tell you parents what is happening to you and what you are doing so that they can protect you. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
LatinaAdvice answered Thursday April 14 2011, 9:42 am: I don't know if this is fake or not, but either way you have self respect for yourself. Your 11 or 12!? And c'mon im 17 ,what would you do if your mother found out what you do?. I honestly think this is quite erm disgusting your giving yourself a bad name, and to be honest you need help aswell. Sex comes at the right time there is no need to rush it at all, OLDER MEN? thats just wrongg. Seriously why would you think of older men ... gross! You need to sort your life out m'love and porn is not the way foward neither. YOU dont even know what you want... think about this, your first time should always be special. Your like a child still and your thinking of these things you can get a sexual infection if I was you I would think straight!! [ LatinaAdvice's advice column | Ask LatinaAdvice A Question ]
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