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i know whats the right thing to do but im not strong enought to do it
So theirs this guy I'm dating for 4months .everything was going Gd till last week.he made arrangements for us to meet up on Friday and Sunday..Friday came and I didn't hear nothing from him till 11pm wich was aalready to late to hang out so I when to bed mad....Sunday came and I didn't hear from him till Monday night and all he text was.."I thought my phone was lost" I ignored him cuz he didn't even appologized so the next day I text him to stop wasting my time..he reply baack by saying "I been Bussy were koo relax" so finally we talk on the phone and He is clue less of y I'm mad.so I tell him y diidnt he ditch me on the date of Sunday and he said he had forgotten cuz he had so much things to do that I should Of Reminded him..I should just cutt him of ?or take his excuses? ..I really like him and I don't want to stop talking to him but I know I Should. But its hard.
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If he's been doing this a lot recently then you just need to end things with this guy. You can't just sit and wait for things to get better because they probably won't. If this doesn't happen often then wait it out, maybe his excuses were true even though he should have called you back or apologized or something. See what happens next week and if he keeps this up, it's not worth it. Good luck!
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you're thinking in the right way. yes it was very wrong of him to stand you up like that. yes you should stop talking to him... BUT.. it depends on how many "excuses" he's used in your relationship.
if something like this happens frequently.. then i say stop talking to him.
but if this just recently happened and nothing like this has happened before, then i say cut him some slack. give in to his excuses just this one time. people make mistakes. if this is one of the few mistakes he's made, cut him some slack. but like i said, if he makes mistakes like this a lot, then its time to stop talking to him.
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I think in this instance he was just being a thoughtless guy. Yes he should have called earlier, he should have remembered about your date nights over the weekend and he should have been more understanding when you were mad. But guess what? This is how guys are, some more than others. And sometimes we are all guilty of being so busy that we forget important events.
Just talk to him and explain to him how you were feeling and that you understand he was busy but you would appreciate a little more effort on his part to keep in mind pre-arranged dates or atleast to give you notice if he has to cancel. Its just common courtesy.
A lot of guys just lack this common sense. So give him the benefit of the doubt and offer him a second chance. When you go out make it a special time, one that he wont forget no matter how busy he is! Its also important to keep things exciting in a relationship.
If he keeps doing these things knowing full well that it hurts you and that hes giving you no consideration then you know its time to do something about you. When it gets to the point where he doesnt seem to care that hes forgetting about you then call it a day, you can find someone better. In the mean time give him another chance. Some guys just need everything spelled out for them!
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