|
dark deep downward spiral
You guys i need serious help....
I am so scared of these people i met about a year ago... we got close, cause one of them made it her "mission" to be my friend because they "needed a pretty girl" in their crew... i could even tell how slick and psychopathic it all really was now... they have pictures of me partying and getting drunk and then sick everywhere... and i am so scared it would get out because it would ruin my career big time let alone my family (especially my dad's job would get effected) i don't trust these people and feel that should i leap into my new career (i just finished college) and leave them and make something of myself they might resort to blackmail or even just exposing me for publicity since they are stuck in a rut doing drugs and drinking all the time. i am over that phase and i've "seen the world and got it out of my system" and never want to go through what i went through (and wish it never happened) i admit i jumped into it being the naive overprotected girl that i am but i have learned my lesson with a biggg price tag plastered on it... how do i make these pictures go away? they have serious evidence! i don't want to hang around these girls and staying on their good side means having to play their game which is ruining my future! ditching them is digging my own grave.... time is sensitive and i don't know what to do!!!! please help me.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
find someone you can trust and confide with them about these fears. a family member or long time best friends. then slowly divide your time between these people and other people in your life. it's alright. now is the time for you to find other people to trust, these special best friends. once you find these people who treasure and love you, no pictures or rumors can stop them for loving you. and no other opinions matter. just ditch them (subtly if you can) before you dig a deeper grave and more pics are taken. DONT PLAY THEIR GAME ANYMORE
if the pics come up and they're not so bad (eg drinking, dates etc), then just admit it. if worst comes to worst (your dad's job in jeopardy, drug pics), deny deny deny. photoshop works both ways. you can say its photoshopped, haha. (im not joking, deny deny deny)
]
I think you should talk to your family fix the problem before it gets worse. Sit down with your family and talk to them that you got wrapped up in wanting to hang and tell them yes i screwed up im sorry i just want out. Once you talk to them itll relief alot of stress then id talk to the police. tell them everything that you wrote on here for advice not like tattling. but seeking help.
]
Hi, I'm old enough to be your grandfather and I am hoping the wisdom that comes with age will be helpful.
I'm not going to lecture you as I see you acknowledge the mistakes you've made. Most teenagers make mistakes that do not follow them into adulthood.
From what you have written and the way you write it, you make it sound as if you are being blackmailed or strong armed into something, just what is unclear. Should you be being blackmailed, threatened or strong armed on doing thins you do not want to d then your only choice, and salvation is to make a police report and let the police handle it.
IT sounds to me like they are bullying you in some respect. Since you may be unable to stand up to these bullies yourself you need to find a bigger bully. This is where the police come in.
The act of blackmail does not have to be an overt act; meaning an actual threat or demand made upon you. The fact that they would use these pictures to blackmail you may, in many states constitute blackmail.
Talking with the police and having them get involved, whether charges are filed or not, may be all you need to get what you want from them.
You have nothing to loose by talking to the police.
]
More Questions: |