Okay so I'm in a wicked sticky situation. There's this guy and he is absolutely the hottest thing you will ever set your eyes on. (: He's not all that tall but I don't mind cause I'm only 5'1". But he's got blond hair, amazing brown eyes and a body that kills. I am so attracted to him and the other day he asked me, If I wanted to have sex with him. I was like "YES" but, the only place we could do it would be in our highschool, Risky I know. But I really want too. I've already lost my virginity so it's not like the first time I have sex will be in a school bathroom but just.. any thoughts? should I do it? thanks.
Additional info, added Sunday March 27 2011, 12:56 am: Oh and by the way, he is not just some guy I fantasize over. He is an ex boyfriend.. we dated from like 6th grade till 10th and now we are like best friends. so, I know him well and really like him. Which makes it all the more hard... to say no. Sorry just had to add that so there was no confusion. . Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? justagirl15 answered Monday April 4 2011, 11:09 pm: Dont Do It
The guy is probably jsut using you because if he looks as good as you say he does he thinks he can get any girl that he wants which he probabl can. But do you want to turn into one of his numbers the joke of the school, a stereotype?
If you do though be careful and use protection make sure that he is not going to jsut leave you when you give it up. [ justagirl15's advice column | Ask justagirl15 A Question ]
Xui answered Saturday March 26 2011, 6:53 pm: I'm going to be blunt
Don't do it
If the guy flat out asked you if you wanted to have sex with him then obviously that's all he cares about. Show yourself some respect and if you caught...Yes, You will likely be suspended or expelled from school.
If anyone finds out, You could cause yourself to have a bad word from other peers at your school. If you want to be stupid and take the risk..Go for it but know actions come with consequences. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
julie75 answered Saturday March 26 2011, 12:34 pm: Being risky is fun and exciting but this has bad news written all over it. What if he tells his buddies about it and they come in to take pictures of you naked or worse yet, they want to join in. If you can't do it at least in the back of a car or the basement, I would pass on this. I hope this helps and good luck. [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Saturday March 26 2011, 10:06 am: Don't do it.
If you get caught, you will almost certainly be suspended from school, possibly on a permanent basis. Your parents would also be informed. If the school allows you to stay, you will have a bad reputation with staff and students alike until the end of your high school career.
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