The guy i like has a problem: He likes me but he has a gf and he doesn't want to hurt her
Question Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 4:09 pm
I like thiss guy and he likes me back but there is just one tiny problem he has a girlfriend. He says he is not happy with her but he is waiting for her to break up with him cause he doesnt want to hurt her.But im not sure what to do should i leave it alone or keep liking him?
lovealways1221 answered Tuesday March 15 2011, 6:22 pm: honey look at it this way..
what if you and him were in a relationship and he started to like another girl. then says to her "i like you but i'm stuck with my girlfriend and i dont want to hurt her/breakup with her"
how would you feel if he did the same exact thing to you??
or look at it this way-
either way he will end up hurting her. whether if he breaks up with her, or if she finds out that he's been liking you the whole time. either way she WILL get hurt. there's no way to prevent it.
I say stay out of it and avoid drama. drama sucks. tell him he either needs to get the guts to break it off with her, or stop liking him because if he's willing to do this to his girlfriend right now, he's most likely will do the same thing to you.. [ lovealways1221's advice column | Ask lovealways1221 A Question ]
dearcandore answered Tuesday March 15 2011, 4:39 pm: Ughh.. what a creep. He doesn't even have the guts to be honest with his girlfriend. It may sound caring on the surface, but really it is quite wimpy and selfish. Leave it alone. [ dearcandore's advice column | Ask dearcandore A Question ]
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