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SO close he wants to break up all of a sudden
17/f My boyfriend(18) earlier in the week asked me what are we going to do this weekend I told him I don't know, and I still haven't known , my friend who usually knows of parties has been sick all week and hasn't been at school so I don't really know of anything going on with the people at my school , the school he graduated from and the people he likes to party with . My friend asked me today if I was going to go to a TEEN club event just to have some fun because nothing really goes on but this , I told her I wanted to but I had to ask my boyfriend first . It's on a Sunday. So I text him and ask him as he's on his way to my house and he pulls up and honks his horn so many times though he usually calls, and I got in the car and at the same time recieved his message saying idgaf do whatever you want have fun" And I asked him what was wrong, he started to yell at me, I took as much as I could, I don't know whats wrong, I buy him food then we are about to eat but I can't even , He tells me that he doesn't want to be with me, we are so close we see eachother everyday , but he hurts me so much all the time ALL the time . Should I just deal with it and let him have what he wants because he does this all the time and I have to beg and plead with him to stay with me when I do so much for him ! Or should I cry and beg him to be nice to me and tell him I wont go . I really want to go and the last time I didn't, my friend is going to be moving soon and I already bearly spend any time with her, it's a 4 hour event . do I cut my loses ? and let him see what he'll miss . idk if i'm right if I do that .
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honestly, he sounds like a controlling, manipulative jerk. youre not his daughter, youre his girlfriend, yet hes trying to tell you what you can & cannot do which is ridiculous. ive dated the same kind of guy, & i suggest you give him an ultimatum: either not be so controlling, or yall are done! you deserve someone who trusts you.
good luck, my inbox is always open!
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