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There's nothing we do better than revenge
With my cousins and my siblings, it's always revenge. Whenever we do something bad to someone, whether accident or not, we always do something worse to that person. All except me. I think what they're doing is wrong. What can I do?
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I think you should sit them down and say you think what they're doing is wrong make them realize their mistakes seeing as they probably don't realize them on their own tell them if they do happen to do something bad to someone they should apologize and say sorry afterwards that's the right and polite thing to do there's no need to seek revenge on the person or do something worst by them seeking revenge their hurting the person and there's no need for that it's not right by you not making them aware of what their doing and their mistakes they'll continue to do it and it will make think it's alright to do when it isn't but if you speak up and make them aware of their mistakes and what their doing wrong they'll stop and realize that seeking revenge on others is truely wrong and it doesn't solve anything or get you anywhere expect hurting others :)
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You could maybe try to make them understand that revenge is not the only solution.
Try to talk it out.. And figure an alternate way. I feel sometimes forgiveness works better than revenge.
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It just they way some people are and it can even be called a habit and its hard to change that and no matter how much it bothers you and you may want to change it the truth is you cant they have to grow up and change and eventually they will but what you could do it help them realize that what they are doing is hurting eachother and that they should stop.
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