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Cheating boyfriend!
okay so I have been dating this guy for the past three months and I recently found out he was cheating on me! He told the girl he made out with that he was single and that I was just his friend! I found this out cause i incidentally talked to the girl.I really got angry when I found out he had been lying to me all this while and I immediately broke up with him. when i confronted him about the whole thing he had to accept it but then for the first five hours after confrontation he was all like "i cant believe i could lie so well.." but after that he said sorry and kept on texting and calling me up! he wanted me back and told me he was very sorry and all and he actually spoke to some of his friends (who i know too) about the whole thing and how he really feels sorry about everything. he told some of our mutual friends to call me up too ..should i trust him again and go back to him or not????I am kind of attached to this guy.. before I knew this side of him, WE had an amazing time together ..thats what makes me hard to believe he could actually do something like this to me. I used to consider him my best boyfriend ever. He would do everything just perfectly :) and though ofcourse we were together barely for three months it felt a long time to me cause we used to meet atleast twice a week or even more often most of the times!!Thats why it is so hard for me.I dont know what to do.
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Why would you trust him? He does not deserve your trust. Your boyfriend cheated on you, He lied to you knowing what he was doing was wrong. I am a firm believer in once a cheater, Always a cheater. If you take him back, You are telling it's okay to play with your feelings. If he cheated once, He will likely do it again especially if he knows he got away with it the first time. Sure, He is calling and texting you..The guy was caught. Put your foot down, If he really valued the relationship you two had he would of never had a reason to cheat on you to begin with. Don't crawl back to him, Know that you deserve someone who will treat you the way you deserve. Do NOT be someone's doormat...You were already down that road.
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Kick him to the curb. There's really not much more detail I can go into. You can't trust him again, and there's a good chance he'll cheat on you again. No matter how good you feel around him, it won't make up for the fact you can't trust him anymore. No successful relationship is built around wondering if the other is going to cheat at any given moment.
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Ok well there goes a saying "once a cheater always a cheater." This guy is a jerk for saying "i cant believe i could lie so well..". Is he crazy? Your not supposed to lie to another girl saying your single. You should definitely ask him what was his reason for cheating on you? Was he not happy in the relationship? Was there something missing? Whatever the reason you deserve to know. Cheating is not right and you deserve to know why he did it before you move on. I wouldn't trust this guy at all. He may be sorry because you found and he wants to keep you. But he doesn't know what it feels like to be cheated on. If i was you I wouldn't want to talk to this guy or see him ever again. Give each other a lot of space and go find someone who you can trust and not be cheated on again. He broke it and that's what you need in a relationship. Hang out with your girlfriends, spoil yourself shopping. This guy doesn't deserve your time for what he did. He deserves NO time from you whatsoever. You have to move on. If you go back to him things won't be the same and it will be harder for you to trust and be happy with him. Who knows if you go back to him so easily he could just cheat on you because he doesn't feel that guilty about cheating in the first place. I wish you the best of luck. :) It's hard but you can move on from him! But this guy did a mistake and now he needs to learn from it.
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