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Change is too much
I really love my boyfriend but hes changing on me too much and its really taking a toll on our relationship.He recently stopped smoking (which is a good thing) but at the same time he decided to go on a raw vegan diet.Im happy for him changing his diet but he gets out of hand. Hes always judging me telling me I should eat that certain way.That people that are raw vegan are so much better.When I try to tell him to let me eat how I want he just calls me ignorant and says its not your fault its the food you eat.I told him its not right too think hes better than everyone else but he seems to think hes perfect ever since he chose that lifestyle I don't know if I want to be with him sometimes I love him I just wish he wouldn't act like he was right all the time. I thought about trying the diet just to stop the fighting but I cant't right now because im pregnant. Im also scared he will act like this towards our child. There is too much change going on right now what should I do? How can I make things better? I've talked to him but he just always wants to be right.
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I think you should tell your boyfriend he's changing and it's taking a toll on your relationship make him aware of that and his mistakes seeing as he probably doesn't realize it on his own because of his actions your relationship is suffering he shouldn't try and force his lifestyle on you just because his lifestyle is good for him doesn't mean that it will be good for you he can't control you and tell you what you can and can't eat your capable of deciding that on your own tell him that if he doesn't change his actions and behavior your relationship with him will continue to suffer make him realize that he isn't perfect nobody is and he isn't right all the time even if
he thinks he is nobody can be right all the time it's impossible :)
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If you've tried to talk to him and he seems to be stuck in his little perfect world all you have to do is remind him of his faults and things he used to do so that he can see that he's not perfect. Another thing I used to be with someone that thought he was right all the time and it bothered me...seriousely it's a turn off. I don't think that the fact that your pregnant should keep you with him trust me you don't need all that extra stress. I know I've been there and unfortunately for me I ended up heart broken so honestly girl...don't this to yourself take a break and maybe he'll stop acting like such a douchebag. Hope I helped shine some light in your issue...=)xoxo
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maybe its time for you to be seperated for a little while. take a break form him to let him know your not happy. make sure you do what is best for the baby. do you really want him doing this to your child, i know it can be hard but you have to do whats best for you and the baby.
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