Well first off, I broke up with this guy that was a 100% my type and I was really falling far him. My type of guy is the one thats athletic, preppy, talkative, respectful, pretty boy kind of guy. Everything about him was perfect and our families got along perfectly, but he lived an hour away. Then I always see girls on his facebook and he would get tagged in photos of him with other girls. So I ended, but I still think about him constantly.. Then another thing there's this guy named Dylan his the total opposite of all the things i'm use to in a guy. His rock style, listens to screamo, just total opposite of what i'm use too. I take a lot of classes with him, and I tell him everything about what goes on with me because I feel like I can trust him. We recently just started getting super close, I call him my partner in crime in classes because we always laugh and cut up in classes that teachers have to move us. He smokes weed then the other night I was on webcam with him and I told him how I really care about him and know that his smart enough not to do that. He liked smiled and got real quite whenever I told him I care about him. He also told me how he really likes me and he doesn't want to lose me. I'm really starting to get that feeling everytime I talk to him too, I just don't know how it would work out though because I know that his far from what i'm use to dating.. We don't even hang out with the same people, and I know my dad wouldn't approve my mom thinks his really cute though. I'm just so confused because of how much I really liked my ex and my dad really liked him which I have to have my dads approval on a guy and thats the kind of guy everyone in my family is like and Dylan just the total opposite so I have no idea on what to do..
Kaye2918 answered Monday February 28 2011, 12:25 pm: You remind me of myself because I've been through that. Look it never hurts to try new things I mean if you like this guy then try it out with him I mean I know you say he's not the type of guy your used to its okay why not try another type rather then stay with the same type and already know what comes next you know what I mean? Well about the dad thing I also know what your talking about because my dad liked my ex you know he used to tell me he seems like he's gonna do good things. I have a new boyfriend now and my dad told me I could do better then him it kinda made me sad in the begining but think about it who is the one dating the guy. One thing I leanred was one parent sooner or later will disappove of a guy we date but all that really matters is if we like him and we approve of him. I'm not saying go behind your dads back just explain your situation tell him you want to try something new and about your ex well theres a reason why you guys arent together anymore think about that I did and I'm really glad I chose my current boyfriend cause he gets a long with my family now and they take him out alot. Hopefully you choose what makes you the most happy.=)xoxo [ Kaye2918's advice column | Ask Kaye2918 A Question ]
orphans answered Monday February 28 2011, 9:57 am: yuo know how they say opposites attract well maybe thats whats going on there. maybe he is the guy you have been waiting for. it sounds to me that you broke up with your ex. you should try and losen up and stop talking about him so much. with every door that is closed another door opens, or maybe even a window. ;) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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