Question Posted Saturday February 12 2011, 1:21 am
Okay so i called my friend to see if she was home and her mom picked up, she said her daughter [ my friend ] wasn't home yet she said her daughter would come home any time soon. And she asked me if i wanted to come over and wait. so i came over and my friends mom started talking to me and asked me if i snuck to my friends house 2 weeks ago at mid nite, i did acctually but i didnt awnser my friends mom. She told me she heard alot of moaning, but the truth is we were listening to the sounds of people doing it as a joke Lol :p so her mom got a little closer to me PS: her mom is 28. and is very pretty (:
so she comes on top of me and starts making out with me and then takes me up stairs to her bed room.
she tells me my daughter is away at her dad's house she wont be back for another 4 weeks ;)
and she stripped me down and started fucking me; i liked it .... then after that she always invited me over till her daughter came back home then.. i didnt wanna do this! but idk its tempting and it made me really horny... help am i a lez!?!? i dont wantt to be i mean i <3 guys
DearAbby92 answered Saturday February 12 2011, 10:34 am: Before you wonder about your sexuality, perhaps you should be concerned that a MOTHER seduced you, an under age girl. I'm assuming you are under age because of the way you write, or at least immature. It almost seems like you are making up a story here, but I hope not because a lot of columnists work hard to help people like you.
If you are under age, she commited a crime. This action seems innapropiate no matter what age since she is the mother of your friend.
Think about your health and safety before wondering if you are a lesbian. You may want to consider reporting this woman.
adviceman49 answered Saturday February 12 2011, 10:13 am: Just from readying what you wrote I would say you were over powered by a Bi-women. As to being a lesbian probably not.
As someone how is old enough to be your grandfather my thoughts on teenage sexuality are this: A teenager between the ages of 13 and 17, the primary puberty years, is usually seeking to identify their sexuality. It is not unusual to try and enjoy same sex sexual indulgence's.
There are two reasons for this. First it is an easier and safer way to relieve the sexual tension brought on by puberty. Second:Parents think nothing of same sex children being together behind closed doors. This way you have relative comfort to explore your own sexuality even if it is with a member of the same sex. This does not make you Bi, a Lesbian or Gay. You are doing what comes naturally, you are exploring.
What has happened to you should not have happened with someone of her age, that is where the confusion has come in. My advice is to stay away from this women and explore your sexuality with people your own age.
This women was wrong to have seduced you. She has caused you great harm in doing so, as well as violating the law. The harm she has done is she has taken from you the chance to explore your sexuality with people your own age as it should be. The law she broke is one of a sexual predator as she had sex with a minor; this is sexual molestation.
As to should you tell your parents? Think about this. She seduced you, has she seduced any of your friends other friends or even your friend? If the answer is; it is possible then I suggest you tell your parents and let them handle the situation. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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