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How do I get her to leave me alone?


Question Posted Tuesday February 8 2011, 9:01 pm

there's a person who kepps bothering me and liking me but i doont like her what do i do to get her off my back without talking privately and personally something i can scream out loud so evryone can hear.

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Memorex answered Friday February 11 2011, 8:24 pm:
Hon, you do realize being cruel to a girl you DON'T like will turn off a girl you DO like if she sees you being so awful, right? At least it will if she's even worth being with. If a girl thinks it's okay or funny for you to humiliate someone like that, who says she'll have respect for you? Who says she won't think it's okay and funny to humiliate you? To walk all over you? See what I'm saying?

No need to be a jerk about it. Just tell the girl, "Hey, I'm sorry, but I don't like you as anything more than a friend." She might still bother you, but if you tell her that you don't and cannot like her in a romantic way, her feelings will die off eventually.

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NinjaNeer answered Thursday February 10 2011, 7:19 pm:
Yeah, that would probably humiliate and destroy her. Not a good idea.

Let her know that pestering you won't make you like her any more. Just calmly tell her you're not interested. She may just be gunning for a reaction from you, so yelling at her would be counterproductive.

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