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It's best we don't talk? But I really can't forget this guy
There is this guy I really like. We will call him Dan. Well Dan and I were talking for a while last October and we hung out and watched a movie at a friends house, then went back to his house and proceeded to almost hook up. I got uncomfortable and stopped him. We texted for about a week after that then stopped talking. He told me he was sorry to push things and he really liked me and maybe we needed time to cool off. Just this December he texted me the sweetest thing that cheered me up in one of the darkest moments of my life. We started talking again, staying up till 2:00 AM sometimes! Then one day he stopped texting me and when I got him to talk to me he said, word for word "ya I confuse myself too. I gave you the wrong idea and made some mistakes. I thought the best thing would be to sever all communications. I thought you would just forget me and I was wrong. All I am going to wind up doing is hurting you. And we need to stop speaking for both our sakes. I dot trust myself at all. I've made enough mistakes and it's not a risk I am willing to take. I'm sorry." then "again my intentions were off and I don't think I have enough self control to avoid making the same mistake." and then "I'm sorry but why don't you examine your feelings a little more. Why would you like me in the first place? I think you are very upset and I am not worth getting upset over." I can't get this boy out of my head. I like him way too much but can't tell if he likes me or was trying to let me down easy and what I should do now. Help? Thanks everyone! (:
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I think he likes you AND he's trying to let you down easy. Take him at his word. He's telling you he is not a good guy. He's not good for you. He couldn't be any plainer. Its his way of doing something nice for you, by not letting you get involved in something he knows for sure will end in heartache for you. You say you can't forget about this guy, and that's normal, but you at least need to put him in your rear view mirror. If you do push forward with this, consider yourself warned. But the best thing to do is walk away from this one with your dignity and heart in tact, and be grateful this guy cared enough to tell you the truth about himself.
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