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i need help dealing with a "loser" that I really like
he's about as weird as they get. i'm absolutely in love with him though. this guy is in a class of mine at school. he's not nerdy, he just doesn't go out, and doesn't really do anything about his social life, so we never cross paths outside of school aside from the internet where we talk. we've become good friends though and he clicks well with mine. i think he likes me by the way he smiles at me and talks to me differently than with other girls. he flirts with me like crazy and turns red every time we talk. he doesn't talk to many girls though. i try to make it obvious that i like him but boys can be stupid and i don't think he's getting the picture since he's never had a girlfriend or much experience, and i really want him to ask me to hang out. what do i do?
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That's so cute! I've known plenty of guys who were too shy to make the first move, or had zero clue on what to say/do to let you know they want to be with you too. I think your best bet is to be the one to ask him out, because i can almost assure you that if you don't make the first move, nothing will happen. Just go for it and soon enough he will start to loosen up and feel more comfortable with things, i promise!
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Oh you did get yourself a little looser but it doesnt mean that it isnt cute. By all means i personally think guys like that are very interesting. Well judging by what you say, it seems like its going to take him a while to even think about asking you out so the next best thing that works and I know because I did it is asking him out yourself. Guys can be dumb because sometimes they dont see whats in front of them so we as girl have to sometimes step up to the plate so ask him out. You dont have be serious but have fun get to know each other you might learn something. Hope I was some help i`d like to here what came out of my advice =D.
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Ask him to hang out. Hint it all you can, he can't be that stupid. If he still doesn't get it, just tell him.
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The best way is to just come out and say it yourself. Say something like "hey! we should hangout sometime after school!" Don't just be like "Hey! You wanna hangout tonight?"
If he still doesn't get the hint, don't worry. He is just shy and needs some help. Just go with it and give it a week, and then ask him to hang out yourself.
If he isn't going to make the first move, you should.
I'm proud that you still take interest in him even though he doesn't have much experience.
Goddess bless you.
xx
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