Question Posted Wednesday January 12 2011, 1:09 pm
i have 2 bestfriends and we were really close untill 1 of them got a boyfriend and she slowly driffted away, i mean were still friends just dont see each other much anymore, and now my other best friend has a boyfriend and is starting to do the same and i never see her anymore, i dont know what to do to get them back?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? kacibinkley answered Saturday January 22 2011, 3:29 am: You need to talk to them. Tell them how much you cherish their friendship and how you feel as if they are drifting apart from you. Ask them ahead of time if yall could have a girls night out, and just catch up on things that yall have missed out on. Having a boyfriend is a very tough thing, because your friends might feel as if thye will lose them if they don't hang with them twenty four seven. You need to tell them, that you miss them, and how you really want to patch things up in the areas where things are dented. If they are your real friends, they will be all for it, and they will realize they miss you too, [ kacibinkley's advice column | Ask kacibinkley A Question ]
mshelpful answered Wednesday January 12 2011, 4:42 pm: You can start by telling your friends it bothers you. If they're as good of friends as you think they are, they will understand. Try not to be so mean about it, because maybe they haven't noticed. If that doesn't work, you can try hanging out with them and their boyfriends.
try not to stress
hope all works out [ mshelpful's advice column | Ask mshelpful A Question ]
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