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What do i do about a roumer saying that i sexted?


Question Posted Tuesday January 11 2011, 10:21 pm

Ok so after the weekend I went back to school and my friend wanted to see my cell phone..so I gave it too her ( not thinking because She is my bestie, what could she possibly do) so she texted someone apparently saying that I would give them a 'BJ' but I about killed her when I read it because she included my full name. .... I couldn't do anything about ut because he was already reading it (as I could see) then he showed the ppl around him and they told their friends and so on, now my whole grade knows nd they keep asking me questions like "why did u say that" all I tell them is "it wasent me" but they just respond with "it was a cruel joke" now my self confidence is down the toilet and everyone us making fun of me, EVEN MY OTHER BEST FRIENDS!!!!! What should I do to make everyone leave me alone p.s. one day it was soo bad I litterally cried in the middle of class.... what should I do

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Xui answered Wednesday January 12 2011, 1:13 am:
As hard as it is ignore it and try not to let it bother you, Rumors spread like wild fire but over time it becomes old news and then they all move onto the next person. If this continues to be an ongoing problem..You confront a guidance counselor and let them know that is what they are there for.

1. Your friend is not friend, She back stabbed you and humiliated you in front of classmates. From now on, I suggest not letting anyone use your phone.

2. Try to avoid them as much as possible in the meantime, If they see you in the hallways IGNORE THEM. They will eventually get the picture and get bored of the situation.

IF, Your classmates continue to bully you let someone know. Don't continue to ignore it because if they don't stop then this is where it becomes a case of harassment/bullying and that is not okay.

There are plenty of people out there that will be a real friend to you, You just have to find them. Friends don't back stab friends nor humiliate them in front of classmates.

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