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Talking to myself
For a really long time now (probably ever since I was 10 or so., I am now 26) I've talked to myself- like having conversations with no body, as though someone were there listening. I only do this when I'm by myself. It's almost like having company, even though I am well aware that I am alone, and there is no body listening.
I have no mental illness to speak of, am totally normal (I have my quirks, but it's nothing abnormal), enjoy hanging out with people...but I have a tendency to be self-reliant, and just be on my own. I don't have a lot of friends (but I have a few close ones), and don't go out a lot, so I do spend much time alone. I have always been calm, and pretty much okay with being on my own (as a kid, I could just keep myself occupied with drawing or whatever, and was okay with spending time alone). I have always had friends, and do enjoy socializing...but am still able to just be on my own, if that makes sense.
I think that my habit of conversing with, well, no one, stems from me spending a lot of time on my own- and as human beings, we are programmed to be social. So...
I am well aware that I talk aloud quite frequently, when no body is around (never when people are around), and if I were to see someone doing the same exact thing, I would be taken back. So I do understand that there is something quite...weird about this, and if not weird, then unusual.
Do any of you do the same, or know of someone totally normal who does? Any thoughts/opinions are appreciated.
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I wouldn't worry about it. Most people talk to themselves. I know I do it. If you were walking down the street by yourself having an entire one-sided conversation I'd say you might have a problem. But as you've said you only do it when you're alone. You're fine. Hope this helps make you feel better!
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You are normal. I think we all do this to some extent. I talk to my dogs all day long, so basically I'm talking to myself all sneaky like, LOL.
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im 17 & i do exactly the same thing! i thought i was the only normal person who did this! lol but i believe its something totally normal.. for me im really shy when it comes to socializing, so i guess that the only person i can have a normal conversation with is myself... & also since im christian, i like to think of myself conversating with God. but other than that, ever since i was a child i would always talk to myself since i grew up an only child, not to mention a loner, but since my household was very abusive, i would just stay in my room by myself talking alone. thats where i think i got the habit from but im not sure... but anyways i hope this was comforting. :) well the part that yur not the only one who talks to themselves.. :)
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