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Upset and confused:(
Well as of last week I was Invites to my bestfriends birthday party/sleepover and we all were going to practice for cheerleading at her party because we all wanted to try out. I Hurt my leg really bad and my mom said I wasn't aloud to do any of that at Her party, so I told my friend about it and it was fine with her. Well as of yesterday afternoon she texted me and said hey you know how you said you couldn't do gymnastics at my party, and I said yes well she said we did a lot of gymnastics last year and we will probaly be doing more this year. So I said ok why? Lol then she said well I don't want you comming and just sitting on the couch! And not do anything. By then I was getting upset, so I said I'll be with friends I can watch and not everyone wants to be a cheerleader so they won't want to do that If you don't want me to come fine. Them she text back and said I want u to come I just didn't want you to leave. Well after that I said why would I leave and she said well I just talke to my mom and she said I am only aloud to have 10 people and you were the 11th and I sai so I can't come? And she said yeah sorry bye. Ok well by then I felt so upset that she had did that because she told me at school o was invited and her mom said she could have 12. So I knew she was lying. I was so excited about the party I thought she was my bestfriend. Also she is the only friend I have and scared to go back to school this Morning we didn't have school though because it snowed and I get upset and worry a lot and I got depressed my m was worried about me. I'm really upset I need advice - thanks. 13/f
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I think what she was trying to say is she didnt want you to come to her birthday party and become bored of watching or feel left out and decide you wanted to go home. Even that I dont think it was right to univite you. I think you should tell her that you would have fun watched everyone else and that you could to a little bit practicing the arm cheers moving your arms the right way. You can always make new friends. Just talk. I was shy when I was your age to but i learned now if i would have just started talking than i could of made more firends.
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well in the first place if she was supposably yur "bestfriend" then she wouldve never lied to yu & uninvite yu from going to her party. a true friend would never betray another friend.
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