[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? AskSinz answered Sunday January 9 2011, 1:50 pm: Im really sorry to hear about your mother. But wanting to die isn't really going to help. It's going to be hard getting over your mother because i'm guessing you were very close. I don't know how old you are but i'm guessing your quite young. You have a lot to live for and need to experience the rest of your life. You mother may not be here in person but she'll be there in spirit. She would want you to continue your life, happily and do everything you would as if she were around. If it helps try and get a counceller to help with your grief it can really help my friend goes to counselling and she tells me she feels better after she goes because she can let stuff out. If it helps because it does with me try remembering why you loved your mum and just remember all the good times you had and be glad you were on good terms before she passed. You have to be brave if you want to move on its difficult but its not impossible. Inbox me if you need to talk some more. Im sorry again to hear about your mother, xxx [ AskSinz's advice column | Ask AskSinz A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Sunday January 9 2011, 11:25 am: My condolences on the loss of your mother.
Without anymore information then the few words you wrote I can only make an assumption.
You are grieving over the loss of your mother. Their are eight stages of grief and you are presently suffering one of them. Grief is normal. It takes time to heal and sometimes we all need some help with dealing with our emotions. Grief is an emotion.
I would suggest you contact your doctor and tell him/her how your felling. Your doctor can prescribe some medication to help you while you find a therapist you can speak with who will help you deal with your loss. This is grief counseling and is very common to seek this type of counseling.
Should you feel that you are going to hurt yourself go immediately to the nearest hospital emergency room or call your local emergency number and ask for help.
I know you are hurting know but I can assure you the pain will eventually go away. You will never stop missing your mother or loving her. But the pain of her passing will eventually heal. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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