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i think i am going crazy.
march 13 2011 marks a year of me not seeing the one my heart desires. a year. how is it possible for someone to feel this way for someone else over a long period of time as if it was the first time seeing them. i mean during this past year i think ive even fallen deeper in love with him when nothing even happened between us. & overall he's my STEPBROTHER! its not right! but in the 2 years ive known him he's been one of the most amazing guys i have ever met. is this an obsession? well he IS physically attractive but its his heart & the little things that lure me in... i WANT to tell him but things would get even more akward. what should i do?? Any advice is MUCH appreciated. thanks. -female 17
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That's really romantic :) It's kind of messed up that you feel this way with your stepbrother. But don't worry it happens a lot to people. It happened to me with my cousin even though we weren't related by blood we had this kind of chemistry for each other. It was really awkward. But that's how I know how your feeling.
You shouldn't keep it inside. It's probably that excitement you get when you really want to be with him because it's been a year and you missed him a lot. You get like really happy and smiley.
Bring this up and tell him that you kind of have something for him. He should be thrilled to have to hear what you have to say...he might say something about it too that you don't know about. Like if he likes you or thinks your attractive or likes how funny you are stuff like that. So I wish you the best of luck with your stepbrother :)
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awww(: haha I actually think it is sweet! I love hearing stories like this. Don't feel bad about it! I mean you aren't related in blood(: so thats good! Well I was actually gonna say it could just be a faze (however you spell it) like I have even heard of stories that cousins liked each other! Infact My two guy cousins that didn't know we were cousins liked me! haha so I think you should tell him how you feel. Try to think of a lot of things like this. One I have heard of were a guy and a girl are going out like around teen years between 13 like me and 17 like you and then their parents meet and get married! So I really think you should tell him(: Why havn't you seen him tho? and another thing that could help you boost your confidence on telling him is to look up situations like your's on thes computer:D I hope this helps and good luck!!!
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Your question leaves out alot of important information, making it difficult to give the best answer. Questions such as how old is your stepbrother? Where is he and why haven't you seen him in a year? I've personally known couples who were at one time step brother and sister, so it's not wrong or weird. You're not related by blood. I'd say tell him how you feel only if you're getting the same signals from him. Try to get a sense if the feelings you have are mutual. Otherwise this might become awkward. But maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised that he shares your feelings. Please feel free to send me a message to my inbox. Hope this helps somewhat. Good luck!
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