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hand job
How do i give a good hand job ? I feel stupid when i do it and he dosen't get off.
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well if i was giving my husband one i would do it slow, steady and plenty of oil on my hands and i would to tease him a little bit flick my tongue over the tip i would has i move my hand down fondle his balls as well
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Well, I don't want to get too graphic here, but there are a few principles to observe. One is that you should genuinely enjoy the way he feels and actually like doing it, and you should let him know that. You should use both hands, and get you hands all over the entire area, and you should grip firmly (but not too hard), and don't go too fast.
The thing to remember, though, is that guys sometimes don't get off with just hands. If he's masturbated recently, for example, there's a good chance he's just not going to come. And that's okay! If you're making him feel good, he should appreciate that, and appreciate you. After a while, you can just stop and move on to other things. No need to feel stupid.
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Cux is right, it is always good to ask a partner how they like to be pleased. In just about everything we do do there is a first time. Even if you are a sexually experienced person there will be a first time you make love with a new partner. Why not ask them their likes and dislikes.
Some guys like a lubricant to be used in a hand job, it gives the feeling that is more like being in the vagina. While we are on the subject you should never be afraid to tell your lover what you like. Maybe you are more clitoral than vaginal. If so you would not get as much enjoyment out of being fingered if your boyfriend spends the entire time stuffing his fingers in you.
Sex is a beautiful thing, meant to be enjoyed by both partners. To fully enjoy sex both partners need to be in tune with each other. This means communicating with each other your likes and dislikes. Neither partner should force the other to do something the other is not comfortable with doing. In the same vain nothing done between two consenting partners is weird as long as both consent and no one gets hurt. The operative word is both consent. No still means no and either partner can use that word.
Also when it comes to sex, like many other things in life, experimentation is good. You can try something and even when doing it either partner can say stop. Stop means stop, right then and there, just like no means no.
I know I have given you more information than you asked for but felt you may be somewhat inexperienced and might find this information helpful.
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Ask him what he likes. Maybe if you do what he enjoys, you'll be able to get him off.
--Jack
(19/m)
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