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how do i know when to ask?
19/m ok so i've been talking to this girl for about a month and half(we have known each other longer but are now just starting see each other) we hang together and i think she has feelings for me. but my question if how can i be sure and what is a good way to talk abut it with out making things weird with us?
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Give her a call. Ask her on a date for the weekend. Talk about it during the date. Then ask her out. Surprise her! It shouldn't be awkward between you two if you do that. Good luck :)
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What about asking her on a date? I'm not sure if that's what you meant by "seeing each other" or not. And you might want to throw the word "date" in when you ask her. I, like many women, are a little oblivious to guys. I make friends with guys, they ask me if I want to go to the movies or something like that and I think of it as two friends hanging out. So, asking "do you want to go out sometime?" and "do you want to go on a date sometime?" can be two very different things.
If she says yes then yeah she probably does have feelings for you. If she says no, it'll be a little bit awkward for a while but that'll go away.
You could always go for the nonchalant, abrupt approach and just ask her if she likes you in a playful-friendly way.
You never really 'know' these things, you just have to take a bit of a leap and hope it works.
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