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Cuddling with the opposite sex.
19/F. The other night I slept over my friend's house who happens to be a male. The only reason I slept over is because he lives a distance away and hanging out with him and going home all in the same day would be silly...anywho, as we were trying to fall asleep in seperate beds, I felt this really strong urge to cuddle with him, but I resisted. I didn't know how to bring it up or how he'd respond to it. I didn't want to do anything freaky lol I don't see him as anything more than a friend and he shows no indication of liking me. So...what's the appropriate way to initiate cuddling in a situation like this?
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Well sure, go ahead and cuddle - but don't be all offended or shocked if he starts initiating something a little more sexual. I think if you really don't want that, you should say right up front, as you're getting into bed with him "I just want to cuddle for a while and go to sleep. I DON'T want to have sex or even fool around. Is that cool?"
He'll probably say that's fine, but again, don't be offended if you notice something growing down there. Good luck!
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been there, done that. my girl-friends usually just stated "hey, I need a cuddlebuddy" and crawled into bed with me. girls are warm, so I was okay with it just based on that. I like staying warm.
-Gunner
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