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I lost my best friend and need to find out how to find out why he's mad
So I have liked this guy for about 3 years now and were the best Of friends. Then he found out i like him and he feels that our whole friendship was a lie :( I tried to tell him no but he wouldn't believe me. Over time things got better I could finally be friends with him then they got worse cuz my other bff started to like him. The worst part waz that he had liked me and that he has for a very long time but my friend convinced him that I wnt go out w him so he got over Me and moved on to her :( so they decided not go out and I thought we could be friends again. But 4 some reason he's mad at me! Now I find out that he's spreading rumors about me and when unasked him he denied it. I really miss him and I've never felt this wat bout someone. Should i get over him or try to be friends with him? If do try to be friends with him how do I talk to him? Pleez respond
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Run from a boy like this! This question was almost as confusing as he's been to you. First he doesn't like you, said you ruined the friendship. Then he looked into getting with your best friend. (your friend also was in the wrong, that's definitely girl code to not mess with who your best friend likes)
You sound like an extremely sweet, sensitive and caring girl, I know that you're going to meet so many more guys with just as good of qualities as you thought he had, if not better. I promise the time you take to seperate yourself from him, and start to live 'drama free' will all benefit you in your search for prince charming. ;)
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i think you should talk to him. tell him this- i just need you to listen to what i have to say first. and then you can tell me how you feel. but just listen to what i have to say. no interruptions. then you can say what you want and i promise i wont interrupt you either.
then after that just talk to him and tell him everything how you're feeling. that you miss him and what not.
after you tell him your true feelings, and he still is mad.. i would say move on. no guy is worth your tears. if things are this complicated right now, chances are they will still be this complicated as time goes on. do you really want to deal with that much complications and stress?? or do you want to be free of that drama and be an independent woman?
good things fall apart so better things can fall together. everything happens for a reason. some things are just not mean't to be and you're just gonna have to accept it and move on. life goes on. you wont die. people go through life not knowing things all the time. for example, people wont know why someone passed away. you just have to pick yourself up on your feet and move on. you'll be fine :)
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hmmm alright , well i say you should give him some space , and if he listened to that girl , do you think hes worht it? if he liked you for 3 years girl , why would he all of a sudden listen to her and spread rumors? i think you should give more space ignore the rumours and just as his mad phase passes you never know... everything comes to an end , and well the way you said should ig et over him? do you really like him? becausde if you ddid you wouldnt be saying that , and you should just wait or even ask him nicely stop in the hallway or whatever take him aside send him a text call him send an e-mail ask him whats going on , hes jus tmad because he liked you for so long and your friend isnt the greatst for doing that to you , but you should tell him your actual feelings and no yelling because tha tdoesnt help , you talk to him politely if you still want to be friends but you have to have a limit you need to wait till his mood passes and he isnt so mad at you and ask him and forgive him if you forgive him God will forgive you and you will get better trust me!
good luck!
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