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stranger i want.
16/f
there is this guy in my lunch, i barely know anything about him but im attracted to him. im drawn to him and i have this connection. . . i hope. he is not in my grade, none of my classes or anything. I have never talked to him either. We make eye contact every day at lunch and whever i walk by he looks me in the eye or just looks at me. without feeling stupid or randomly walking up to him, how can i get him to talk to me or want to get to know me?
thanks
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Well if you don't want to walk up to him the safe bet is the next time you make eye contact, smile. If he smiles back it will be less awkward for you to go up and start a conversation.
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Chances are he's wondering why you keep looking at him at lunch. Either he's glaring back out of annoyance or returning your gaze out of interest but not necessarily for a date.
All you need to do is say "I'm sorry if I'm coming across as rude or creepy but my friends told me about you but when it comes to meeting guys I'm a bit shy and don't want to send out the wrong vibe."
He'll understand if you let him know you're being honest and felt intimidated to go up to him. Perhaps he's had that experience too or is scared to approach you. Just say "hello" to him and see what happens. Until you say that everything is in limbo.
I can't guarantee that he's going to love you and be interested in you but maybe you'll get a friend or at least know. Make sure he's single too so you don't inadvertently piss off another girl. Other than that I suggest you just approach him and get that over with.
Just remember that he's like anyone else you know and treat talking to him as no different and you will be fine. The only difference is you might wind up with a date, a friend or both. It's really not that hard to just introduce yourself much like you have done with other friends. Let him know you're an introvert as I suggested.
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