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should i?
ok my bf is 2 years older than me and probably alot more expirienced...and he keeps asking me weird questions and it sounds like he is trying to hint at sex and i dont want to yet..wat do i do?
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To tell you now, usually in every relationship, if one is sexually experienced, they will wonder about you. They will try to figure out just how experienced you are, and if you're not, they are all about wanting to teach you. It's alot of peoples lil 'exciting' moments. Its natural for people to ask questions like that. If you think he might be hinting towards it, talk to him about it. It is always best to be straight up front about it with him. If he doesnt like the fact you're not wanting to, then tell him he is going to have issues and have to rely on his hand for a while until you are ready. Ok...maybe you can say it nicer, but still something along those lines.
Dont let anyone ever try to convince you that you're ready unless you know for sure that you yourself are ready.
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He might be trying to see how experienced you are or how much you know about it. Since some girls get offended if guys ask them how many guys they've slept with or if they're virgins, some guys will use this trick to try and figure it out themselves. It doesn't necessarily mean he wants to have sex with you right now. But most likely in the future (near or far).
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Tell him. Don't let him, or any guy for that matter, pressure you into something you don't want to do. If he dumps you, so be it. You'll meet someone who wont do that to you.
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Hi,
He could just be asking weird questions about sex to see how much you know about that topic..? If he is hinting at having sex with you though and you aren't ready for it, tell him you aren't ready. Never give in to sex if you don't want to do it; just keep saying no. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him you will let him know when you are willing to take that step. If he loves you, he will understand and wait to have sex when you are ready too <3
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