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molested when I was 3
I was molested by my dad when I was 3 by my dad and I dont know who to beiieve anymore becouse my dad's side of the family says that my mom's liying ad my mom says they are lying and I can't even ask my dad about it becouse he died when I was 12 and he probally wouldn't tell me the truth anyway. Iam still having nightmares about a little girl who was eating supper on a man's lap and the police coming and the cops arresting him and putting her in a different cop car and I wake up screaming every time I have that dream.
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I'm sorry that your dad put you something like this. No child should ever be abused let alone abused in this manner.
I cannot tell who to believe. What I can do for you is offer advice on how do deal with the nightmares and get on with your life. There is an organization I would like you to contact. There name is; RAINN, which stands for Rape, Abuse, Incest, National Network. I will put their phone number and web link at the end.
This organization was formed to help people just like you who have been traumatized by rape, abuse or incest. They will help you find people in your neighborhood who will help you deal with the nightmares and get your life back on track. There is no shame in asking for help. The abuse you have suffered is deep seated and with the help of professional councilors you can learn to not only deal with this but to put it behind you.
You do not need parental permission to call them and everything you tell them is confidential.
Please call RIANN at 1-800-656-HOPE. The call takers are trained to help them so talk freely with them. Their web address is : [Link](Mouse over link to see full location).
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my best advise is to pray about it ask God why and Then think to yourself and say i love me better than that then you must forgive and forget
say to yourself why i don't know? but am i gonna forgive him? YES am i gonna for get and move on with my life? YES
all i can say is everything happens for a reason but it will work out for the better.. before you go to sleep say that ever night(the 2nd parahgraph)and im soooo srry im taylor and if you need anything else just (Ask Taylor)
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Hey,
I would think that your mom would tell you the truth. Your dad's side of the family could just be trying to save your dads reputation and dignity if he did do it. I know it is hard, but I think you should ask your mom what exactly happened. She should be able to get the facts out since she was the one who was married to him and had to deal with it, if it happened. Tell her about the dream. Mom's are suppose to be there to comfort you and support you. If you find out the truth about this, and understand that it was a mistake if he did.. your dreams should start going away <3
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