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Lost Love Sort Of...


Question Posted Saturday November 20 2010, 2:39 pm

There was this guy i met my freshmen yr of college. I'd like to think that we hit it off. when we met we spent that whole day together. i was living in providence at the time and he in Boston. he was only suppose to be down there for the day so when he invited me to go back with him i was pleasantly surprised and i accepted. that night we did engage in some sexual activity but i stopped it before we could go all the way, it was more like four [lay. anyway i spent the entire next day with him and left that night because of school. i was suppose to get in touch with him the following week because i was suppose to return the following week but unfortunately my phone broke erasing all of my contacts including his. i haven't see or spoken to him since, it's been about a year and a half. But i recently found out some information that would give me the opportunity to get in touch with him. My question is should i use it?Considering he was my first for a lot of things. I am debating with myself on whether i should reach out or not because it seem like i kind of blew him off. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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sunshine1232 answered Tuesday November 23 2010, 8:02 pm:
Yes i do think you should get in touch with him and use the information to your advantage you didn't blow him off you had no control over your phone breaking & erasing all your contacts it was one of
those things that happened unexpectly it's not like
you knew it was going to break beforehand you didn't
blow him off on purpose you had a reason why you did
i think if you do get in touch with him again you can explain to him what happened and apologize
make up for lost times if you don't use the information you might end up regretting it and wishing you did :)

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gr8fruit answered Sunday November 21 2010, 9:49 am:
Hi,
That is bad if he thinks you blew him off! If you still have feelings for him, try to get in contact with him and let him know that you weren't ignoring him, you lost all your contacts. I would definately use the information if you think he is worth it. If you tell him what happened and he doesn't believe you, you shouldn't give him another thought. But, if he understands the situation, then you should keep in contact and see if it will work out :) There is no harm in trying.

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