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i love you.. but you dont feel the same way
So i've had a thing for this guy since we hooked up awhile ago. we didnt talk much but we met again at another party.. we ended up hooking up a few times all weekend. and talked about how much we liked eachother. all this.. then monday comes and we're sober. He says he doesn't know how he feels.. that he feels different when he's drunk rather than sober.. what do I do? I really like him..
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Honey, the last thing you want is a guy that doesn't know what he wants. You need to find a guy that likes you for you when you're both SOBER. So don't rely on clubs/parties to give you a guy that will treat you right.
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Although harsh... He's just not that into you.
There are other guys who will cherish you, but this guy does not seem to understand what he has. So, forget him! You may hook up a lot... but guys hook up for the sake of hooking up. It is not an indirect way of saying "I like you." Sure you can take it as him saying "you're pretty" but I advise you take the compliment and walk away.
He likes you at night yet isn't sure during the day.
He's trying to keep you close but not too close so he can continue hooking up in the future but not commit.
Love Always
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if he's going to drink and hook up with you.. chances are he would do it with any other girl. meaning, he's not worth your time..
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Well usually when people are drunk they are thinking differently or not thinking at all. Ask him if he likes you, if he says no, then it's time to find someone better. If he says yes, then you don't really have much of a problem. If he says he doesn't know, then give him time. But don't focus all your time and energy on this guy. He might not be worth it. Good luck!
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Hi,
I would ask him if he feels anything for you. If he says no... it was just the alcohol talking (which sucks). See if he will hang out with you, get to know him sober, then see if he is still who you thought he was. People tend to be completely different when they drink; find out who he is without the partying and alcohol. If you still feel something for him after that, flirt, and see how he reacts. If he isn't feeling the same, don't push it, he's not worth your time. If he does, then take another step forward. Everyone feels different when they are drunk. Your judgement is much better when you are sober... decide when you both are <3
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