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Friends and a boy..
hey, ok so i have like two problems. well i like this guy a lot and he's a FLIRT and he said a few days ago he liked my friend. But he asked me to kiss him numerous times? It just didn't really make sense to me. I don't know what to do. My second problem is I used to be like best friends with this girl and we're not anymore but we are friends still. it just sucks because she's the one i always went to my problems for. And we like NEVER hang out anymore. It sucks a lot. Any advice for me? ahaha(:
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my advice to you is to stay away from this boy. if this is what he's acting like right now.. who knows how girl crazy he will be if he's in a relationship. i wouldnt trust him too much because it sounds like he doesnt really know what he wants (considering he's flirting with a bunch of girls) most times when guys flirt a lot, its because they feel good about themselves if a girl likes it, so it boosts their self esteem and they do it more to make themselves feel better and better. its like buying a pair of shoes and everyone tells you they look great, and you just want to keep buying more and more because you know they look good on you.
as for your girl friend, its too bad things didnt work out between you guys. but its not too late! its never too late to make up :) just talk with her and hang out with her. ask her if she wants to sleepover and bond together. have makeovers, watch movies, go shopping. just hang out and then ask her what happened between you guys? ask her why does she think you guys started to fade? then let her know how much she means to you and that you dont want the friendship to fade.
chances are that she probably doesnt know that you guys are distancing. she could be very clueless. so its your duty to let her know how you're feeling and remind her that you're there for her no matter what.
if for any reason, she takes it offensive or gets angry.. its not youre fault whatsoever. all you did was try to fix things between you 2. if she does get mad, let her cool off. dont try to yell back or make your point. it will most likely end in a fight and you could lose the friendship completely. my rule is- allow a 24 hour cool off if you have a fight. then talk to her after 24 hours passes. if she still is angry, she's not worth it then. you can find another friend who will TREAT you with RESPECT :)
i wish you well:)
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Oh, I've been there. I almost liked a guy who's a complete flirt. Different crushes every single day. Hahaha. Well, yeah, I understand why it doesn't make sense to you. I don't understand what message he's trying to get across to you either. Maybe for now, you should evaluate your feelings for him first. Why do you like him? Ask yourself questions like that. If you take that chance and let yourself fall for this guy, even if you know he could play you, then it's your decision. Think hard. :)
Oh. I'm sorry to hear about the falling out with your friend. Do you have any idea why that happened?
Don't feel too bad about it though. People change. Friends grow apart. It happens. Sometimes, time fixes it. But there are times when you can't do anything about it anymore. But from what I understand, you care about her alot. If you wanna bring back the old times, then you should do just that. Maybe you got busy with school or something like that.
Hope that helped. :)
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