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senior in highschool & hate my friends
i'm a senior in high school and i hate all of my friends. they are all huge back stabbers, their boring, and i'm just so sick of it. i even tried to graduate early, but i couldn't because i'd have to take a night class and missed it. i don't know what to do, how can i make senior year more enjoyable? :(
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well, first off - congrats in making it so far in your high school career - that alone deserves some props! *claps hands*
as for the friendship troubles - i hate to say it but, dear, such is life. A big ball of creatures. some great some ... a little questionable. thing is friendship and friends are hard work, i still struggle with this to this day - my advice is to keep them at arms length and hold on to the ones with a flicker of hope. if no one steps up to the plate broaden your horizon and you might be surprised as to who comes along for the ride.
"those who mind, don't matter, and those who matter don't mind"
just know who you are and what you believe in, its not easy honey but, nothing worth fighting for is!
in hindsight i can honestly say I'm thankful for the hardships of the purgatory they call high school. with out the mud slinging and the name calling and the back stabbing i would not be as strong of will, as stubborn and and hard working as i am.
i find giving back in the area where you feel most "empty" or unsatisfied in satiate that feeling very well. for example you could try volunteer at a community centre or sign up to be a big brother/sister help younger kids accomplish what you have so far be there for them and show them what loyalty is!
Stay cool honey!
Let me know how it pans out.
peace, <3 and Daffodils,
SeattleDaffodil
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Well senior year isn't always what we expect it to be, but I do have some advice. It may seem corny, but is one hundred percent true. You only get out of something what you put into it. If you really want senior year to be enjoyable then make it enjoyable. I am not sure how much you do outside of school, but one thing that really helped my senior year was a job. I know sometimes teenagers think jobs stink however sometimes you can make some really cool friends that way. If nothing else you and your coworkers can complain about how terrible your boss is outside of work, lol. The important thing is, is to think of the things you love to do and find a way to involve them in your senior year. For example, if you are artistic you can volunteer your services to different groups within the school. Find people who plan on going to the same college as you or things of that nature. Always remember that most of the time the people you knew in high school will typically go along the route they choose and will have absolutely no control over anything that happens to you in your life. Be determined to not let your crabby friends affect your senior year.
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How about getting involved in an activity outside of school? What are your interests? There are always groups looking for volunteers, and people who meet up to explore shared hobbies, crafts, sports, etc. Those friends are likely to last past high school -- an added bonus!
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