Hey 19/f so i hooked up with this guy i went to high school with. and well like maybe 5 months ago i started talking to him because on facebook i kept adding and deleting him because i couldn't decided whether or not to keep him as a friend. well anyways he messaged me and said text me and gave me his number so im so stupid i texted him just to see what he wanted. well anyways he would keep asking me to hangout with him and i know that means hookup because he's asked me. and i kept replying saying no. but i finally quit replying like a few weeks ago he won't stop texting me. yesterday he called me and my dad asked who it was and i knew his number so i said i don't know and my dad said give it to me and i said no its okay. i mean i called at&t and they won't block his number unless i pay $4.99 to block up to 15 numbers, but my dad pays the bill. so i don't what to do. this guy texted me a few days ago, called me yesterday, and he's texted me a bunch of other times the last few weeks. i deleted his texts. it's annoying and i know i shouldn't have given him my number, but still. what should i do? i mean he doesn't call/text me like every second of the day, its just he texts me like every few days or sometimes like once a week and then again the next. so yeah idk what to do! help!
Additional info, added Monday November 8 2010, 10:39 am: also i blocked him on facebook so i won't be able to contact him or he won't be able to contact me, and maybe he'll get a hint. i don't get a upgrade til april so i'll hopefully get a phone like a samsung so i can block numbers from the phone, but i don't wan t to wait that long. do you think hopefully by then he'll get the hint and leave me alone? . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Crystalysesmommy answered Monday November 8 2010, 5:14 pm: You can text him to leave you alone and if it continues instead of blocking his number you can change it.. I believe it only cost 15 or less. [ Crystalysesmommy's advice column | Ask Crystalysesmommy A Question ]
darknessb4dawn answered Monday November 8 2010, 4:45 pm: sorry to be the barrer of bad news, but if he hasn't gotten the hint at this point, he's not going. this kind of presistance has a name; harrassment. but its not harrassment unless you tell him to leave you alone. send him a text saying your not intrested and that if he keeps trying to contact you, you'll call the cops. this should stop him cold. but if for some reason he persists, CALL THE COPS!! this kind of behavior can lead to stalking and so much more that you probably dont even realize if you let him continue. hope this helps and let me know the outcome. [ darknessb4dawn's advice column | Ask darknessb4dawn A Question ]
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