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wats gonna happen to me if pre cum comes inside me and am pregnant?
am 14 and am a female
i had sex with my friend and were the same age and he has a girlfriend and we been having sex 4 times today was our 5th and we didn't use a condom we have before but today he said he knows wen he cums and he didn't cum but he pre cum inside me and wen we was done we thought that pre cum didn't have sperms inside it and i was consernd about it he was to and i wanted to know Wat happens wen pre cum makes its way inside me ...i dint have my period for this hole 3 weeks and i dont want a baby well i do but not at this age and i know he wont be there for the baby because he doesn't want his girlfriend to know that its his baby WELL NO ONE to know its his he doesn't like me but i do but he doesn't care i really regret i had sex with someone that didn't love me but loved my body -_______- he is gonna have sex with someone else after his done with me and i really dont want him to because i dont want that girl to be infected with anything were both checked clean were not infected with anything but i just dont wanna get pregnant and let my baby be a bastard with out a father Wat should i do i need help bad or my moms gonna kill me i have to Waite two weeks for a pregnancy test but i have no money for that or insurance's i live with my step mom she finds out iam done plz can someone help me!!!!!!!!!!
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Obviously, you've learned from your mistakes, so I'm not going to lecture you on safe sex.
The first thing you need to do is to stop panicking. It can delay your period, which can make you panic even more, so it's best to just calm down and take things as they come.
Pre-cum can have sperm in it. It's just like regular semen, just with a really low sperm density. The odds against pregnancy are pretty huge even with a full ejaculation (about a 1/5 chance), but it's still a possibility. Just not a really big one.
If you just had sex, you can try to get your hands on some Plan B. It's pretty expensive (about 60 dollars) and can only be obtained with a prescription in some places (I live in Canada, and you can buy it without one). It's also really hard on your body. If it's taken within 24 hours of sex, it's really effective, though.
There is always money for a pregnancy test. It costs 10 bucks at a pharmacy... no need to go in to a doctor's office. Heck, you can get a couple, and it'll help verify results. It's better to know early so that you can make good decisions.
If you're going to continue to have sex, you should look into getting on birth control. There are all sorts of excuses you can use (like saying that you have really heavy periods, etc) and it's really not all that expensive. I know I can get it for 10 bucks a month at my school. You should also be using condoms. I know they're expensive, but having an unwanted pregnancy or an STI is far more expensive. If you can't afford protection, you can't afford sex. When you have sex with a person, you're having sex with everyone they've had sex with... and everyone those people have had sex with, and so on. Just because he's checked out clean doesn't mean he'll always be that way. He's having sex with other people, and who knows where they've been, right? Take care of yourself.
Chances are against it, but if you are pregnant, you have several options. You can choose to keep, adopt or abort. What you choose all depends on what your personal morals and situation direct you to. Yes, an abortion is expensive and emotionally difficult. However, it may be a better option for you than raising a child when you're not much more than a kid yourself. If you do choose to keep or adopt, you still need to make sure that you take good care of yourself during pregnancy and get the medical care you need.
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