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Dating into an endless heap of nothing????
Hi. Im seventeen and i finally found a good guy. He and I have been seeing each other for about six weeks now and were doing great. He always as his friends tell me that I am the first girl he actually likes and cares about. I have met his parents (a first for him) and his friends adore me. We hang out usually four times a week and we have a great connection. I am just worried why he has not asked me to be his girlfriend. We are currently exclusive which I know, but we are not in a relationship. I am his "girl" but not his "girl friend" how do I know if he wants to ask me out? Any signs? Or what if he just wants a "thing?" I am trying to be happy with what I have now, because he is amazing, but I think i am going to say something by the three month mark. Any one care to help?
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I sounds to me like by "seeing each other" you mean having sex. Am I right? I think I am, and I think that because he keeps having you around but he won't say you're his girlfriend. Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?
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Define seeing each other? Just going on dates and stuff? Maybe he doesn't know that you need him to ask and he thinks you guys are already dating/ going out. I mean his friends adore you, his family approves and you hang out four times a week plus he tells everyone about you? If he was just testing you out or having a "thing" with you, why would he bring you back to meet his family and tell all his friends about you? If a guy just wants to have a thing he wouldn't introduce you to all these people, he'd keep you around to have fun. I think that if he doesn't ask you by the three month mark you should definitely ask if you're going out or what is exactly going on between you too. I mean it's already been a month and a half of this seeing each other four times a week and meeting family members and such and if he hasn't gone out with any other girls I think its safe to say that you guys are basically dating. I would even ask him when you get to two months or two months and a half because if he really likes you as much as you say, he's not going to stop seeing you because you want him to define what your relationship is. Good luck! Hope I helped! x
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