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crush or admiration?
So I've liked this boy for a while now and up until now my crush has been fueled by the few conversations that we've had. I can't truly say I "know" this guy. We aren't best friends or anything, but he's essentially fits everything that I would want in a guy. I'm pretty sure that there is at least some level of mutual feelings. I hung out with him and his friends recently and now I'm starting to doubt if I really like him. Maybe I just admire him? He has this "life of the party" personality and I almost feel like I can't live up to that. Maybe this is a confidence issue? :/ It's really unfortunate because I actually want to be friends with him but sometimes my nervousness just makes me feel awkward around him. I probably come off tremendously shy around him, but I'm not that shy! Now I want to convince myself that I don't like him, so that my life can go back to normal? I don't know. Should I be patient and see where things go? I feel that asking him out would be very unexpected and especially because I don't talk to him that often, it might just be weird. Anything will help. Thanks!
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First off,when you're around himtake a deep breath,that usually helps calm down nervousness a bit.Second,it also helps if you told him your admiration or crush feeling or whatever you're feeling at the time,just to get it off your chest.It tends to boost confidence in people.And if you want things to stay the same in this friendship thing you have going on with him,i say hang out with him and maybe his friends more to get used to them and not feel so timid around them,and see if they are really crush feelings,you have or admiration feelings for him,or just friend feelings.Anything could happen.
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