flirting with boys that aren't my boyfriend and I like it more than I like my bf
Question Posted Monday October 18 2010, 12:10 am
ok so i broke up with this boy and got back together with him.. and he is my current boyfriend.
but just several days ago i was at this movies night were you dont sleep. and well this guy started holding my hand and stuff under the sheets.. i told my bf the next day.. i think the other guy likes me and well i dont know how i feel
to top it off my ex like completely flirted with me today on the bus.
i feel horrible for my bf cause of all that is happening.
what do i do??
im not completely into my bf.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? MAK answered Sunday October 24 2010, 2:59 pm: If you are not into your boyfriend, you should break up with him, because right now all you're doing is leading him on. If you truly liked your boyfriend, you wouldn't let other boys hold your hand, and if a guy flirts with you, you tell him you have a boyfriend. I would at least take a break from the relationship to figure out what exactly it is you want, and why you are together with your ex in the first place, maybe there is something special about him that made you want to go back to him that the other boys didn't have.
Wishuponastar13 answered Monday October 18 2010, 6:21 am: I would break up with your boyfriend. Obviously you broke up with him before and now that you got back with him you don't even like him that much. If you were truly happy with him you wouldn't like it when you flirt with other guys. It's better to break it off with him now then when you've been in the relationship for even longer and things get more intense. It's worse to keep leading him on then to dump him again. Your boyfriend shouldn't be someone that you kind of have feelings for. Also think about why you got back with him. Out of guilt, or because you were lonely or really because you missed him? If I were in your situation I would let my feelings develop with someone new because it seems like you're dragging some kind of old romance with the boy you're with now and you don't even know if you really like him. Good luck! Hope I helped :/ x [ Wishuponastar13's advice column | Ask Wishuponastar13 A Question ]
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