So I have this situation , I go to the gym , and there is this guy that works there , and so , we use to eye eachother , he works there by the way , and later on he said ''hey'' to me one day , and the next time he was like ''whats up'' and as he came back hes like '' I always see you here , your here like 24/7'' and stuff , and then now he says ''hey'' to me or ''smiles'' to me and stuff , and I want to get to know him more , what should I do ? Should I ask him to hang out?
Additional info, added Tuesday October 12 2010, 3:25 am: Oh yeah , I was planning to have my friend ask him for me. Should she do it? or leave it to me? like be like '' you know that girl , she's wondering if you'd like to hang out sometime'' bla bla bla. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Rosey answered Tuesday October 12 2010, 2:18 am: Betty,
It seems like the guy is trying to make conversation but be careful....it could be one of three things: either he has a girl friend and is a die hard flirt (85% of heterosexual males, he is shamlessly shy (why he hasn't asked you out yet) or the gym has a strick policy about employees dating the customers. I am thinking it is one of these, men ususally go for it when they are interested. If you really like the guy perhaps you could ask him a couple of "generalized" questions that might enlighten you to the reason for his reluctantcy, or atleast acknowledge if he is indeed interested in you. If the cost is clear for you and he to "hang out" than it will happen just be patient, there is no hurry unless your membership is about to expire. Hope this helps Rosey ;) [ Rosey's advice column | Ask Rosey A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Tuesday October 12 2010, 2:04 am: Hey there,
Yes, I would definately give it a shot :) He obviously likes that you are there, so ask him to hang out, grab a drink, go to a movie with you, or even just for a walk through a park. I am sure he will say yes; he already talks to you and smiles at you :) Ask him if he is interested in some quality time with you and then smile at him... I am positive he would like to get to know you better <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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