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i like him....im in a dilema:/
so i really liked this guy. we hung out and hooked up a couple times but i even though i tried to deny it i really did want more with him. so we were "talking" for a few weeks and then he just stopped texting me and stuff and then a week later i found out he was hooking up with one of my friends. i can't really be mad at her tho because i didn't tell her we were "talking", so she didn't know. should i mention it to her? and if so, how? helppp please:/
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hey i understand what your going through. what you should do is one on one talk to you friend and tell her that you was talking to him and that you guys hooked up before and let her know how you felt about him,and see what she has to say.
alos if you really liked this guy alot you should of toke time to knpw him before you had hooked up but im you still like him i think you should ask him one on one how he feels too and who knows it could go all good but then again it could go all bad and if so forget that guy you deserve a guy who wants you and only you.
Hop all works out
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He was just using you and doesn't want anything serious so move on. Don't worry there will be better guys out there for you who will give you the respect and love you deserve.
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Don't mention anything to anyone.
This guy doesn't want anything serious, with you or your friend.
Stop wasting your energy on him and move on.
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Yes, you should tell her if you're close to her. Your relationship with the guy ended up just like that, with him deciding to stop calling you after hooking up with you a few times. Sorry, but I don't think he's a nice guy. If he can do that to you, he'll do that to your friend. If you care for your friend, you should warn her what kind of guy he is, and then let her decide if he is worth it.
And for you, get over him! He is so not worth it. Girl, you deserve better!
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No, don't mention it unless you want to be embarrassed. Take this as a lesson learned. You don't get a guy to like him by giving it up before you are even in a relationship. It doesn't work that way. This guy proves it. Ever heard the expression "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free"? Well, this is a classic case. Why on earth would he stick around to get to know the real you when he already got to know the only part of you he wanted in the first place. Now he has no reason to hang around and get to know you.
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