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Location: California
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2010
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so i really liked this guy. we hung out and hooked up a couple times but i even though i tried to deny it i really did want more with him. so we were "talking" for a few weeks and then he just stopped texting me and stuff and then a week later i found out he was hooking up with one of my friends. i can't really be mad at her tho because i didn't tell her we were "talking", so she didn't know. should i mention it to her? and if so, how? helppp please:/ (link)
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He was just using you and doesn't want anything serious so move on. Don't worry there will be better guys out there for you who will give you the respect and love you deserve.
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Well, actually, I have told my ex I don't want be friends repeatedly, but every time we run into each other we have like a 2 minute friendly conversation. Then the next day he sends me these massive e-mails saying how we should really be friends, and I'm being immature and worrying too much because obviously we can have a conversation or demanding I explain my reasons for not wanting to be friends.
I don't hate this guy, but I don't want to be his friend and I don't want to argue about my reasons with him either. He's not a monster or anything, he's just a bit of a bully and I never liked the way he was condescending with me. But I am going to keep running into him sometimes and I do want to stay civil. How do I make these e-mails stop without telling him off? (link)
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Next time you see him around don't say hi. He needs to get it through his head that you don't want to be his friend. And if you keep having conversations with him when you see him your giving him the wrong idea that maybe you do want to be friends. And thats probably confusing him. Just stop talking to him little by little and he'll get the idea. I hope everything turns out well for you :)
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I sit across from my crush in class and we look at eachother all the time and its cute but also awkward. we dont really talk that much but just stare. last year we sat closer and were friends and pretty normal around eachother. i dont know what to do because i feel very tense and uncomfortable everyday during class and it looks like he feels the same. we're both 16 so you think we'd be past this whole staring game. i dont want to confess but this is getting kind of ridiculous. what should i do? (link)
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You should go talk to him. He probably feels exactly how you feel about him. :) Be the one to make the first move if he hasn't already done so. It will show him your confident and guy's love it when a girl has confidence. It wouldn't hurt to try. You never know what it might lead to. :)
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