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Gender: Female
Location: Utah, SLC
Age: 15
Member Since: October 4, 2010
Answers: 4
Last Update: October 8, 2010
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I'm 20/f almost 21 and I'm only a size 32 a.. what is wrong? Why havnt my boobs grown? (link)
My mother always said that everyone is different (body types and all) and that we should just be grateful for what we have been born with.


Ok so recently I ot a bf. I feel like I said yes to him just to be with someone. I feel like sometimes he is so sweet. But then other times I feel like he is clingy and I'm not physically attractedto him. Well I like this guy fiend of mine. We get along great and he always makes me laugh and I'm physically attracted to him. The problem is he dosnt have the same feelings for me. He just sees me as a friend. Should I end it with my boyfriend? I don't really like him but I guess I want to give him a chance. He always says I love you and stuff. Today he said do u like me? I said yes then he goes well I think I love u lol I don't want to hurt his feelings but what's a relationship if I'm not happy. Should I just wait and see what happens or end it now? (link)
To me, that seems like egging him on. And I don't think anyone likes that. For example: If you liked a guy and you were dating, and he was only with you just to date, how would that make you feel? To me that would kinda stink.
And I also have like my best guy friend and he didn't like me back either, and I got over it. Sometimes I do think he is cute and could mean more but then I think, of him more like a brother and change my mind. So I would end the relationship.
And really decide who i like and why i like them.


I recently got a boyfriend, maybe less than a week? Well, the first day, we basically talked about everything we could. Politics, religion, future, careers, family, friends, anything you can think of, but most of the topics didn't last long as he kept stopping and staring off into space, then asking me to talk to him.
It's awkward because I'm normally a reserved person who likes being alone a lot of the time so I can work on a story that I'm writing. He always wants to talk, but it's like he wants me to do most of the talking and I'm a very boring person. All I do is write, sleep, and eat... Sometimes hang out with friends.
Bascially I'm asking why our relationship is so awkward. Maybe it's just because it's how things start out? It didn't seem like that with my other relationships... Help me, please :(
16/f (link)
If you dont like talking much, and he does, or he just doesn't know what to say either, ask him if he's a talker, or just continue not really making up subjects and just enjoy eachothers company.


16/f

i like this guy. a lot. hes 2 grades below me but 10 months younger (i dont care about the age, just general info)
well i met him 2 weeks ago and i am falling for him fast. there are several things semi wrong
well he is catholic and i am christian. i heard that catholics only date catholics, is that true? next is that he is mexican and im white. I have no problem with this but he usually prefers hispanic. well we flirt a lot. we walk to the next class with our friends, some days just us. well to more problems. . . my friend "A" flirts with him a lot. shes a flirt and she wont lay off, i have tried numerous times to tell her, but thats her behavior. she says that she doesnt like him yet she asks me to ask him if he likes her and wont leave it alone and i told her that he doesnt (which is true) but sometimes he flirts with her (they are in the same grade and have 2 classes with each other). i really like him and am hinting to him to ask me out and that i like him but im not sure if he does (he does flirt though) . any advice? what are things that will get him to notive me more? (link)
Hmm, well, I personally havent dated at ALL so im just saying im not coming from experiance... anyways, This guy kinda sounds like a player. And if that really was a true and good friend and you asked her to lay off she would. But from the story she hasnt, so I would ask the guy, "Hey, I like you and I think you like me..do you?"
If he answers yes then say, "Okay so then why do you flirt back with my friend?" Get it? okay then thats all i have to say.

-lisha




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